This Guy Irritates Me, But Not in My Under Regions
May 7th, 2012 § 1 Comment
Sexology by Prof. Walling, (c) 1904
I just adore looking about at the sexual sciences of the past… This book is horrific and alarming with chapters like “The Womb And It’s Apendages” or “PART V: Masturbation, Female”.
They refer to masturbation as the act of IRRITATING THE VENERIAL REGION. They talk about how women become ugly because they have masturbated too much. I, myself, have proven this to not be this fact case! I am well skilled when it comes to touching myself and I’m not too ugly.
Maybe I need to work even harder? Touch myself more. You know, in an effort to further prove my scientific findings.
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Hot Tips for Sexy Lips
May 6th, 2012 § Leave a Comment
Mouths are hot. In so many ways. But this post has had me thinking of better ways to care for one’s mouth when it comes to sex.
Understanding and having barriers available is half the battle. Then, even in a sexed up fog, you have what you need in the moment. I gave you a hot of safer oral sex option here.
But you can also cut a condom into a square for a quick and easy dental dam.
Or you can cut it up the pinky side, snip the fingers off and create a dental dam with a tongue pocket!
And if you want to use your fingers and tongue together, two quick snips up the sides makes that possible. You fingers are then inside her pussy, anchoring the dam at the bottom and then just pull the flap up and lick away!
Having safer oral sex is not the easiest thing to do. We are animals. Part of our attraction is to be able to smell and taste our lovers. It tells us how healthy they are and helps to establish compatibility.
If you still find it impossible to use barriers during oral sex, you can start by getting tested together and at the very least avoiding flossing before you see your partner. This will help keep your gums in tact and potential reduce your risks of contracting infections.
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May Ducky Events
May 1st, 2012 § 1 Comment
Come & Get Me! xo – Ducky
5/10 POP His Rocket: Blow Jobs, Hand Jobs & Taking Your Guy Over the Edge, New York, NY
5/16 Girl Gasms: Art of the Female Orgasm, worldwide online presentation
5/17 Girl Gasms: Art of the Female Orgasm, New York, NY
5/19 Bachelorette Party, NY, NY
5/23 POP His Rocket: Blow Jobs, Hand Jobs & Taking Your Guy Over the Edge, worldwide online presentation
5/26 Bachelorette Party, Long Island, NY
Quote:
April 30th, 2012 § 1 Comment
At some pivotal point in life, one goes from asking “why”.. to asking “why NOT?” -unknown
How to Age Well
April 30th, 2012 § 3 Comments
Be a little fat. It fills in the lines in your face.
That’s right. I said it. Be a little fat.
Rich people pay loads of money to inject fillers into their eyes, cheeks and lips. You can have that naturally by just being a little fat.
FTW.
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Nude Woman Exposed | photo by Charles Gatewood 1971
April 24th, 2012 § Leave a Comment
This stunning photo was a gift to me from Charles Gatewood for some writing work I did for him. I lent it for a time to the Museum of Sex in NYC and it was included in the Sex in NYC exhibit. Now I am finding it does not fit my collection at home. So I’m selling it on ebay with a low starting bid! (It’s behind an adult filter so you must login to bid.)
A description of the photo (and the story behind it) can be found here. It is It is 11×14″ or 16×20 with the white boarder. Though this print is in perfect condition, with no marks or damage. They are selling that one $1800.
Please feel free to ask me any questions. I’m happy to answer them.
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Ducky at the Museum of Sex (NYC)
April 23rd, 2012 § 2 Comments
Wednesday, April 26th, 2012
POP His Rocket
We’ll be straight up with you. This is a blow job class. Super fun and loaded with tips and techniques that will blow his mind. So sit down, prepare to be titillated and have a great time. And while you are there, having a great time talking about blowjobs with Ducky Doolittle, prepare to be transformed in other ways as well. With more than 20 years of sexual research behind her, Ducky has proven men are sexually deeper and far more beautiful than the world gives them credit for. She’ll teach you how to see beyond the B.S. of this Girls Gone Wild world and really connect with your guy.
Expect to learn:
- The truth about his pleasure anatomy, including his hottest spots and how to stimulate them
- Tips and techniques that will have him melting in your mouth and in your hands
- Sex secrets and desires guys are too shy to tell you
- How to define what makes you sexy in his eyes and how to amp up your sex appeal
- Fresh communication techniques that will have him eagerly asking how he can please you in return
7pm – 8:30pm
Tickets: $25 This workshop will sell out. Seats are limited. Snap your tickets up early. Buy Tickets.
Museum of Sex / Oral Fix Bar
233 Fifth Avenue (@ 27th Street) NYC
Beautiful, Law Busting, Bad Ass… Bettie Page
April 10th, 2012 § 1 Comment
A new film! The true story of the world’s greatest pin-up, nude and fetish model, told in her own words. A provocative expose about Bettie Page’s on camera joie de vivre blasting past 1950s censorship efforts. And best of all, made with Bettie Page’s authorization.
Free Art Show… all the faded back room glamour of a bordello
April 9th, 2012 § Leave a Comment
Brooklyn, NY
In the context of this exhibition, the title infers a wink toward the timeless relationship between the erotic and commerce, a mainstay of the exhibition venue. Jo Wilmot’s paintings are a naughty expression regarding the history of decadence as well as the ribbald nature with which society treats the subject of intimacy and sensuality. Utilizing his background in retail visual merchandising and creative window design for global brands such as Selfridges and L’Occitane, Darren Jones will create a glittering window story that evokes the romance and faded back room glamor of bordello aesthetics.
Best Sex Writing 2012: The State of Today’s Sexual Culture
April 8th, 2012 § 28 Comments
I’m going to nutshell it for you: sluts, politics, pleasure, religion, cash, queerness, STDs, youth, age, crime, violence, body image, history, lust, leather, blow jobs and F bombs. What else do you need to know?
In her introduction, Susie Bright aligned the curation of this anthology with the childhood fun of building a time capsule in a Tupperware bowl, to be buried for posterity. I can see that. There are pieces that exemplify our times. But there are also essays I believe will stand the test of time.
My favorites being To All the Butches I Loved between 1995 and 2005: An Open Letter about Selling Sex, Selling Out, and Soldiering On by Amber Dawn. And not just because we toured together for a month while performing with the Sex Workers Art Show back in 2004. (OMG… best tour mate ever!) But because Amber writes from her heart and with a perspective that is raw yet inviting. She’s easy to love.
I also love the warmth of Lynn Harris’ Dating with an STD. Gone were the scare tactics and judgments. Left behind were her words of kindness and notes on the realities of lives touched by STDs.
I was soaking in nostalgia as I read Abby Tallmer’s Losing the Meatpacking District: A Queer History of Leather Culture, as the ol’ NYC meatpacking district was once one of my beloved, gritty stomping grounds. (Where else could one chat up a transgender hooker and a blood splattered meat packer while wearing greasepaint? And that was just a normal course of my work day!)
I also enjoyed Rachel Kramer Bussel’s Penis Gagging, BDSM, and Rape Fantasy: The Truth about Kinky Sexting where she addresses the hotness of sexting and how, when taken out of context, lustful words can be twisted in the worst ways.
Selected and introduced by Susie Bright, edited by the very prolific Rachel Kramer Bussel, inside you’ll find this book to be a very thoughtful collection of essays on sex.
Leave a comment to this post (before 11:29pm (eastern time) on 4/8) and you are entered to win a copy of Best Sex Writing 2012! (Contest is over. CONGRATULATIONS to Heather! Much thanks to everyone who entered… there will be more contests. I promise. xo)
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