What is Sexy? You.

May 2, 2013 § Leave a Comment

She was a part of my Art & Nature of Being Sexy class. English was not her first language yer she so eloquently wrote…

“At that time, I was confronted with a serious issues with my marital partner. We had had issues in sex life. Your workshop was such an eye opening experience. It was the first time when I thought I can control my sexuality. My body is mine, my soul is mine, and sexuality is mine. They are all together to make me who I am. He said I was the sexiest woman in his whole life. I believe his words. You know what? If I had heard the same words from him before I took your workshop, I would have thought ‘oh, whatever, he just says it to sound nice’  – but now, I can really take his words as they are.”

Art & Nature of Being Sexy is a class that seldom sells out but is as good for my soul as I hope  it can be fore participants. Teaching this class helps remind me of my own beauty.

Growing up no one ever told me I was pretty. Or smart. Or worthy of much in the world. There were no grand expectations for me. My sense of self worth on every level is hard won. This class helps me believe that I am beautiful. Knowing I am beautiful allows me to believe it when someone gives me a compliment. I used to hide from the attention of others. Now you might even find me swelling up and leaning in and enjoying that attention!

The stories I tell in this workshop help me not just forgive my imperfections but find titillation in them! (Perfect is so boring.) And it truly inspires me to see beauty in others. I may drive the presentation but I am whole-heartedly in the class with you because I belong there too.

I’m teaching this class in Toronto next week. There are still seats available. And a few seats for my Girl Gasms workshop too. My full tour schedule is posted here.

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Beauty Illustrated: How Do You See Yourself?

April 16, 2013 § Leave a Comment

Being an artist’s model did wonders for my self image. To see myself through another person’s eyes. I highly recommend it.


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54% of Women World Rather Be Hit By a Truck Than Be Fat

February 28, 2013 § 5 Comments

Your body is perfect. Lovely ideas of how to better care for yourselves and others. The little things we say and do compound into powerful acts of change.


Buxom & Beautiful: Fetish Wear for Plush Girls

February 12, 2013 § 2 Comments

ducky doolittle latex dress

I wrote another article for my friends at Stockroom. They give me such awesome opportunities to give y’all a glimpse of another side of me. This article is about fetish wear for plush girls. (Actually it’s for everybody and every kind of body.) I hope you like it! Plus there is another photo of my little rubber dress posted there too. And here is a link to all of the articles I have written for Stockroom so far. And here’s the dress and the stockings I am wearing in this photo.


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Curves Forever: Another Body Image Boosting Stunner

February 7, 2013 § 2 Comments

body image sexy

Tara Lynn, another role model for beauty and what it is to have a badass body image. What a stunner. (plus-size-tall.com)


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Lust for Underthings: I Want The Panties!

February 7, 2013 § Leave a Comment

love me stockings fredericks

It all started when I stumbled onto these love me stockings. So cute and sexy. From there I had to groom the entire Frederick’s of Hollywood site and make a wish list of wants!

Ruffles are the bomb. I love this ruffled halter bra and this ruffled cup chemise. I like this halter chemise too. Perfect for girls with big boobs and lush hips. I also have totally been digging panties like these with a heart shaped cut out and a key hole cut out. Cute! I think I might need a little satin kimono like this also. It makes every day a little sexier.

I have expounded on my love of cage panties. I recently got these eyelash lace cage panties. They run a little small but then a girls plushness just billows out. Kinda cute like that. And this little borelo set is so comfortable and sexy. I love it.

For me, feeling beautiful all starts with what I slip into first thing in the morning. Pretty underthings are an awesome way to start the day.


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Reminding You What Sexy Can Look Like

January 31, 2013 § 11 Comments

Hot damn. Need an example of sexy, positive body image? Look no further.

Speaking of which… I got some laundry that needs washing. And a pie to bake. Where are these girls when I need them?


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Reverse Strip Tease (nsfw)

January 10, 2013 § Leave a Comment


(via Jo)


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A THICK Crush on Thick Girls: Plus Model Magazine

October 8, 2012 § 1 Comment

plus size women

Plus Magazine is free online (PDF) and always full of crush worthy curves. They show us beauty comes in many sizes ~ as does elegance, fashion and sexiness. No really, the magazine is full of amazing fashion… I just could not resist these stunning projects of beautiful bodies. (via thecurvyfashionista)

plus size women


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You’re a Fruit Too

September 29, 2012 § 1 Comment

I’m a cross between a strawberry and a pear. But I know I am sweet as could be. Oh and I love bananas! And watermelons. And blueberries. Ok, I like all the fruit.

fruit chart

(via bedsider)


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